Your entire response to “him”! You have articulated something that has inherently bothered me for quite some time, but I couldn’t quite put it into words.

When someone doesn’t bother to fill out a profile, it makes it really difficult for those of us on the “other side”. How can I ask you a question when I know absolutely nothing about you?

It feels unfair and unnecessarily challenging to put everything on “me”. When you fail to fill out the profile in any way (or in an extremely limited capacity) I question how sincere you are about the process and, by extension, truly connecting with someone.

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