Yes, there’s a lot of truth in that. I have dated guys that were clueless (not intentionally misleading) about the emotional work they still need to do. Others turn a blind eye and are indifferent. And still others are making some headway.

And, of course, women are guilty of the same behaviors!

Thank you so much for reading and responding, Kabi!

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