Well, yes, there are people who firmly believe that not looking for love leads to love. I have taken long breaks and attempted to engage with people IRL. That hasn't worked out either. C'est la vie! I promise I am living my life - just waiting till I can travel abroad again and pursue my adventures without constraint. But I've done enough things solo. I'd prefer to share my life with someone else. Time will tell if that happens. Many thanks for reading/responding!