This was the subject of one of my earliest stories!

I suppose the intended audience are the decent guys out there who are making the effort to read our profiles and reach out in a thoughtful manner.

I want them to understand that the “jerk behind door #3” ended up being too problematic for me and THAT is why they never hear from me with a rejection if we have had no or very little texting/messaging back-and-forth.

You do a fabulous job, Shannon, of articulating this specific problem.

Some guys take their feelings to a completely unacceptable level of blame and anger towards women on a dating website/app simply because these women are not interested.

It’s exhausting and upsetting! As if dating isn’t hard enough as it is!