Thanks so much for reading and responding, Nick! I appreciate hearing the male voice — it’s always enlightening. (And kudos for owning your prior player-ish ways!)
Agreed. He definitely wasn’t malicious. He seemed befuddled by me (and my “virtue” — his words) more than anything. Which amused me.
Nonetheless, I’m confident that I read him correctly: he was not willing to see me any more unless I agreed to a sexual relationship with him ASAP.
Sheesh — he’s 40 not 20! (I’m much more willing to let this behavior slide for dudes under 30.)