Thanks so much for reading and responding, Irrational Optimist!

I can appreciate many approaches to dating. It’s really about what works best for you, your lifestyle, and needs (and, of course, vice versa). If dating younger women is more successful for you, go for it!

I don’t feel that I have an accurate enough pulse on what dating looks like for the 18–30 year old age bracket, so I would not feel qualified to write a similar article. Perhaps someone else will!

I like the idea of a special app/website for the fetish lifestyle. It feels like it would make expectations clearer!

Thanks for the kind words and best wishes to you on your search!

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