Thanks as always for responding, Jeff! I hope I didn’t sound despondent — I was shooting for “contemplative,” I suppose.

I take long breaks when I feel closed off, but those have been rarely needed. Usually shorter breaks do the trick.

But there’s no way around it: it’s been a long time since I’ve been in anything resembling a relationship.

In any case, many thanks for remaining #teambonnie! And you know it pleases me immensely to know that you have found renewed happiness in a relationship!

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