Thank you for the thoughtful response, Aruna K!
Yes, he was definitely a player — fortunately I figured that out fairly quickly!
I got the impression he didn’t really care that much if I dated other people as long as I slept with him. And, of course, that was not going to happen, especially with his unwillingness to even get to know me very well!
Thank you for the kind wishes! I’m going to keep looking — hopefully I’ll find the right guy!