Thank you for reading today, JulianGiulio Nhorteo Batedo!

To be clear: I am referring to women who take no responsibility for their issues, the women who refuse to take accountability for their poor choices and actions.

I am not referring to imperfect women (because no one is perfect, of course) who are working on themselves, acting with integrity, and upfront about their issues.

If you still disapprove of my word choice, c’est la vie. This is one of those times where we will have to disagree.

I have heard WAY too many stories from my guy friends about crazy chicks. (Heck, I know a few crazy women. They’re my friends. But they’re crazy.)

The root cause may be for a host of reasons, but crazy women are out there and they damage the dating realm for all of us.

And FAR too many guys say they want nothing to do with that kind of woman, but flock to them.

On the flip side, my pal Shannon Ashley has done a beautiful job of writing about men who accuse women of being crazy. When those same men have actually gaslit those women they date or twisted/contorted the situation in a way that absolves them (the men) from any responsibility.

Best wishes to you!

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