Thank you for reading and responding, Jack!
In “real life” I can see how knowing someone might lead to a romance, but going on a DATING website to “be friends” just doesn’t work for me.
And, oh, my — I sure feel for you (and your ex) with her sexuality realization after the fact. What are ya gonna do?
If you should find yourself bored and/or needing more confirmation of avoiding online dating in 2018, these will only further your stance:
Thank you for the well wishes — sending good vibes back at you!