Sadly, these days I find myself writing less and less when initially interacting with someone. So few people bother to write ANYTHING on their profiles anymore and I’m too exhausted trying to guess what they are into to come up with something intelligent or witty or interesting. I hate that. And I hate myself for being lazy. But my laziness is really in response to the guy’s laziness. I suppose that’s your point today. (I’m chuckling!)

Do you think it’s gotten worse over time? I do! I’ve been on-line for about 4 years and I feel like guys have gotten WAY, WAY lazier in the effort put into their profiles. Maybe women have too, but I don’t look at profiles of women. ( I can say that my profile is chock full of info so dudes don’t have to guess a ton about my personality — or at least have a few easy things they can latch onto for conversation starters.)

Sigh. The whole endeavor truly is exhausting and so monotonous in some ways! And, in other ways, never a dull moment!

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