a good looking, well-educated, traveled, mild-mannered, successful renaissance man, who adores the women he chooses and has always treated them respectfully, stands no better chance meeting a person of substance than any other swinging dick in the pool, no matter how low or base the character, and is subject to at least as much humiliation as those who ask for it

…or woman

That’s as succinct a way to express my own frustrations with online dating.

I still do it, of course, but this is an astute observation.

My experiences don’t necessarily align entirely with yours, but this was a very intriguing read. I really appreciated your insight, the introvert! Hang in there!

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