Oh, Paul McGurk! As I always say: my gender isn’t helping things! That’s terrible!
Thanks for reading, playing along, and responding! (By the way, my guy ended up driving 9 hours round-trip so he could see me on Sunday. I was really touched that he went to that much trouble just to spend a few hours with me. I might actually end up having a 4th date with him. I haven’t had a 4th date with anyone since 2017! Time will tell.)