Oh, Mike McLain, thank you so much! I am so touched by your words that I am almost teary-eyed. I must admit that having other men back me up makes me feel heard and acknowledged in a unique way.

I must add: I know LOTS of great guys who are appalled at what goes on out there in the dating world. I definitely do not lump all men into the same catagory!

It’s the accumulation of this treatment that is so difficult. If it was an isolated case or two, it would be much easier to tolerate.

Thanks for being one of the good ones and for taking the time to respond so graciously!

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