Oh, I haven’t had many LOVERS at all! I’ve just had a lot of first dates! I have never had a one-night stand or sex on the first date (or 2nd or 3rd)! In fact, I have had barely any lovers!

I just shared that I have a lot of experience out there in today’s current dating world. People were assuming that I had only dated a few times and was being too close-minded so I added some background for perspective.

But you make an excellent point that had not occurred to me, Ed! I guess it comes down to: people will judge and misunderstand me no matter what I write (or don’t write).

Thank you for reading and responding — you’ve given me some new insight! And I’m most appreciative of your support!

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