Of course dumping your pregnant fiance while lying and being an overall cad isn’t cool! (You certainly got, well, the shaft, Shannon!)

Obviously I’m not excusing the scoundrels, the liars, the abusers, and the cheats who weren’t honest and then blind-sidedly dumped their significant other.

But there is another world of dumper/dumpee dynamic out there where the “dumper” has really been ignored and let down by the dumpee. So in some ways the dumper was actually the silent dumpee for months or years.

Thank you as always for reading and your thoughtful insight, my friend!

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