No, I’m not a sugarmama.

I have stated this elsewhere repeatedly: I do not do casual sex, hook-ups, or FWB. I do not nor have I ever done “fringe benefits.”

My point is that several guys on Medium have accused me of using men for money. I have not. If anything, I have found that many men are financially decimated after divorce, so they are limited financially and I have attempted to date them anyway.

More recently I have concluded that a guy with more financial stability is better suited for me (and vice versa).

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