No, I definitely was really clear: he asked me if I wanted him to send me a photo and I told him explicitly “no!” He did anyway. That’s why I got angry. Once I told him how he made me feel, he apologized three times.

I can be pretty quick to judge so I was trying to keep an open mind. In my head, I was telling myself: “We all make mistakes. He apologized. Go out with him, meet him in person, and give him a chance.”

Here is more to the story that will probably help explain why HE was the one sending mixed signals:

Looking back, I probably should have just made the story longer and included all of these facts, too. Almost everyone has seen my side more thoroughly after reading the unedited version. (The original story was already 7 minutes long, though, so I was trying to keep it from being too long.)

Thank you for clarifying your response.

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