My separation lasted about a year prior to my divorce and my divorce is now 4 years old. I did have a serious on-and-off again beau, but that ended over 3 years ago.(That is QUITE the story — I almost died! That relationship literally almost killed me.) A few near misses since then, but mostly single city for moi.

I think you’ve hit something: the length of time of being single can take its toll!

So grateful I’ve got you, Jonathan, Niki Marinis, Shani Silver, and the rest of my single crew to commiserate with. Plus, the fabulous newlywed, Michelle Birge, who gives me hope!