My profile has at least 10 photos and a very thorough profile completed. He had access to all of that from the moment he decided to contact me.

Once we started messaging/texting each other, he asked for ANOTHER photo separate from all the ones on my profile. I don’t have a lot of guys ask for an additional photo, but from time-to-time it happens.

Once he began asking for the additional photo, I realized he was really asking for some sort of risque photo of me.

I have found that many women (and some men) are still working on asserting themselves and finding the courage to speak up for themselves. This is less of a “pat on the back” and more of an encouragement to others to find their voice as well.

I wrote a lengthier response to another guy who made a similar response to yours.

Should you care to read it:

Thank you for reading and responding.

Queen of mixtapes. Lover of music, travel, and fashion. Authentic sharer of life lessons and dating foibles.

Get the Medium app

A button that says 'Download on the App Store', and if clicked it will lead you to the iOS App store
A button that says 'Get it on, Google Play', and if clicked it will lead you to the Google Play store