Many thanks for the compliment, Michelle!

I have found that some of the guys that say it channel exactly what you mention: something to butter up or soften the inevitable blow.

Other times, I believe the the guys were sincere but not in a space (or more accurately, unwilling) to take the steps necessary to sincerely explore a relationship with me. Those are the times it hits me the hardest.

I so appreciate your reading and responding!

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