I’ve actually met several guys at my house. My schedule can be very tricky, so I have done it a few times. I know there are horror stories, but I do try to be very selective. This particular guy was weird and absurd, but he wasn’t dangerous.

If ANY guy has made me feel even the tiniest bit off, I stop interacting with him. It’s possible that I’ve been overly cautious, but I have not had the true scary stories that other women have. Mine are typically ridiculous, tacky, and sometimes vulgar. But not truly awful.

Thank you for worrying about me, though, Audrey Bath!

Hmmm…I’ve never had chemistry with someone who was, well, ugly. But I was completely head over heels for the Brit who was only 5'9" (if that), had jacked up teeth, and a receding hair line. He’s one of the sexiest guys I’ve ever known, but definitely wouldn’t meet the height requirement for many women. I didn’t care at all!

You are definitely right — we never know who we will have chemistry with. But I do find that I have a very good sense of who I won’t have chemistry with. I guess years of dating has helped hone that skill.

Many thanks for reading and sharing your thoughts!

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