It's really just been my way of trying to compromise between my need for a relationship to evolve vs. most of the guys I meet wanting a sexual relationship on a much faster time table. Fortunately, I meet guys who understand taking our time to get to know each other a bit better, which is my preference. I definitely prefer to focus on one person at a time, but hedge my bets at first because so many people flake out. The joys of online dating! Thanks so much for reading and sharing your insights!