It’s particularly refreshing to hear a guy admit this. I feel like some throwback, old fashioned chick from some other era (granted, I’m way older than you).

Divorced women in their 40s are now perceived as cougars or MILFs or eager to sow oats. It’s become expected, the norm.

It’s exhausting to be misunderstood so frequently. I’m just not cut out for casual sex.

Thanks for sharing such an honest story!

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