Me: “Actually, you can just look at the photos on my profile.” (I had about 10 posted on my profile.)

It was included in the middle of the story, but you missed it. (Easy to do when reading on a phone.)

I’ve noticed it’s predominantly white american women that bend themselves into pretzels faking orgasms or lying to some guy to keep him around even if it’s short changing them.

It is unfortunate. I have chosen not to do those behaviors, but nonetheless, I feel for women who have felt like they have to. I also have been known to call out women for sending mixed signals to men because it’s confusing to everyone.

In any case, part of my emotional and intimate work overlaps with others’ work out there. It’s nice if I can provide some encouragement or insight.

I also appreciate hearing the male perspective and thank you for taking the time to read and respond to me today, Avant! Best wishes to you!

Queen of mixtapes. Lover of music, travel, and fashion. Authentic sharer of life lessons and dating foibles.

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