I’m so glad you wrote this, Stella!

Even I have sort of ghosted/blown some guys off. I hate doing it, but sometimes there aren’t a lot of better options. (I never do it if I have met someone more than once.)

Guy #1 — Oh, yes! It’s taken me a long time to see the signs earlier on, but now I’ve got a pretty good sense when my and “his” objectives are not aligning. And I quickly disappear!

These experiences certainly leave us wiser!

The ventroom sounds entertaining!

I’m so happy to know that you are in a healthy place these days! You’re are an authentic, special person and you deserve to be appreciated. #teamstella

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