I’m so glad it was helpful, Jeff! It was so eye-opening to me as well. I really wish I had known about it much sooner.

I’m good about circling back around, but I realize now that many people are not. I can understand why my ex-beau assumed the worst: his experiences indicated that I was avoiding.

Sadly, he never was able to understand my perspective and the relationship was unsalvageable. Thankfully, we wish the best for each other and I know I learned a lot during that relationship!

Many thanks for reading and responding!

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