I’m so glad it was helpful! It popped into my head yesterday and I thought it might provide some clarity.
Honestly, I still hate not responding to certain guys. (Not the cocky ones or the ones who clearly didn’t put any effort in, but the sincere guys. It’s still hard for me to ignore them.)
Online dating is a tricky, complicated place. I don’t blame you for trying a different avenue. I hope you find a successful strategy soon and meet just the right person!