I’m on Medium quite a bit, but can’t find the time to read everything I would like. Publishing less frequently might allow your work to be savored in a different way. At a minimum it might be worth publishing a bit less to see what differences you observe/feedback you receive. And, of course, dating/other hobbies/the natural change in schedule will likely cause a shift to your publishing anyway.
I’m smiling as I type this: Unsurprisingly, I’m looking forward to hearing any dating updates as you feel comfortable sharing them!