I’m going to give you the benefit of the doubt and suppose that my tongue-in-cheek comment about being a failure at dating was “lost in translation.”
Rather than presuming and projecting assumptions onto me, you might read additional stories I have written.
Over the past year (give or take) I have written numerous pieces about dating, relationships, and life lessons that I have accumulated. The tone varies for my writing style: sometimes cheeky, sometimes humorous, and sometimes more serious.
As a rule, though, I survive dating (and life in general) by trying to see the ridiculous and absurd whenever I can. Humor lightens the heavier things that life throws at me (at all of us, of course).
Should you be interested in the (often painful) lessons I have learned, I would recommend these stories. Should you choose to spend you time not reading my stories, that is totally fine, too, of course. You are entitled to spend your time as you wish.
Reflections on the Anniversary of My Divorce
How a Lanky Texan Showed Me My Own Personal Growth