I’d lump him in my “confused and confusing” category. I just can’t say that he’s bad. He didn’t attack me or criticize me or send inappropriate photos or ask for inappropriate photos or ask that I not wear undergarments (really) or objectify me or stand me up.

So, yeah, I’d call him confused and confusing but not bad.

Thank you as always for reading and sharing your thoughts, Scott Shattuck! I so appreciate hearing another guy’s perspective — it’s always insightful!