I think I’m wearing a lot of black in most of my pictures. Some of my interests (80s alternative music in particular) probably seem dom/sub-ish. That’s my guess anyway!

And, yes, I’m so NOT what they are going to want! At least most of them are pretty cool about it. I think I’m getting too old — I don’t hear from them very often anymore. (Which works out quite nicely!)

I’m actually an INTJ. (A female INTJ is the rarest human on earth — is it a wonder my dating life is a debacle?!?)

I’m so happy that you enjoy my writing, Emila Skytracker! It means the world to me when my viewpoint resonates with someone!

And, yes, making virtual connections with folks like you (and a few dollars) out of my dating foibles has been an unexpected blessing! Lemonade out of lemons, indeed!

Thanks for reading and your ongoing support!

Queen of mixtapes. Lover of music, travel, and fashion. Authentic sharer of life lessons and dating foibles.

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