I think I could have followed up with the guy who was moving, but I’ve been in this situation so many times before: I have to do the work, I have to keep making the plans, I have to send the texts/communicate. It’s me doing 90% of the work and receiving some scraps in return. It doesn’t feel particularly healthy, so I am doing things differently now.

Granted, that means I’m going on even fewer dates, but c’est la vie!

I hope you are doing well these days, Jeff, and look forward to dating updates as you deem appropriate.

Many thanks for reading and supporting me!

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