I run really direct and have found that guys might try to incorporate my requests for a few days and then revert to doing what they want! Oh, well!

Example: if you were to say, “I’d like to be in communication with you every other day if not each day,” I’d be on your wavelength, thinking you might be interested in us getting to know each other and maybe this budding relationship has potential. If I were to say as much and you were to balk at it, it would be a red flag for me.

Yes, that makes sense to me!

I just crossed my 48-hour mark with cool guy. I really got the impression that the custody was going to be a problem. There are SO many single women without kids or women with older kids (who no longer live at home) in Austin. I think he’s going to move along. I can’t blame him. C’est la vie.

I’ll be on the look-out for your latest story, Ed!

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