I just want to date someone. Old-fashioned “date.” Not sex, not co-habitate, not meet my kid.

Hang out, spend time together, get to know each other. Sure, I’m looking for some physical connection to see if we have chemistry, but more importantly I’m looking for a stronger connection than that.

Give the new relationship a little room to breathe.

If we spend some real time together, we can address what the next step looks like for us at that point.

I have found some guys who looking for that, but they are definitely the exception and I have to wade through the rest of the dating pool to find them.

Thank you for reading.

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