I hope it’s not inappropriate for me to jump in here, but I wanted to share a couple of sincere points.
I’m only 5’4" and have dated guys who were my height to 6’5". In fact, I had a serious beau a few years ago. He insisted he was 5’8" (but was definitely 5’6" — I never corrected him). I thought he was one of the sexiest men I have ever known. Ditto the 5’9" Brit I was mad about (he dumped me).
I recently met someone online who I hope to meet when he returns from his offshore job. (We have done several Zoom-type virtual dates due to his job.) He is 5’7" and, good gracious, I cannot wait to meet him!
Just this year I had a guy from Hinge tell me that if I had a boob job I would have been attractive. (Weirdly, since writing the story that I’ve linked, perimenopause has bumped me from a B-cup to a small C. Sadly, it’s just that I’m losing muscle in exchange for fat. But I’ve decided to look on the bright side that I’m still small to most guys but a little bigger than I have ever been in my life.) LOTS of guys dismiss me because of my chest size. It is what it is.
A final comment: another friend of mine was married to someone who was 6'3" or 6'4". She has enjoyed dating guys of all heights, including someone who was 5'9" that she had insane chemistry with.
Fingers crossed that you connect with a shorter woman like me who thinks you are plenty of man for her!
