I had to giggle: Who doesn’t like it when someone reaches out first?!? Even if I’m not attracted to the person reaching out, it’s always flattering (unless they are solely asking to be my dom or insisting that a FWB arrangement would be the best thing evah for me) that someone found me attractive enough to initiate contact.

From everything I’ve read, though, women are more selective in who they reach out to, so it’s more flattering for a guy to receive a message than a woman.

I thank you on behalf of the female masses for filling out your profile! But I’m even happier that you are currently off the market, my friend! You know that makes my heart happy!

As always, many thanks for reading and your input, Jeff!

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