I finally ditched OKC altogether this summer. It’s just gotten too weird in Austin. From the guy side, there are some decent chicks out there (if you have the patience). But from my side, it’s about 80% doms/S&M/kink-friendly/poly with the remaining 20% dudes being not what I am attracted to.
OKC wasn’t always this way in Austin, but it is now. C’est la vie.
I hope you have better luck and sincerely think that it’s worth using OKC if you’re a guy!
If nothing else, I’m loving your stories! #sorrynotsorry