I don’t have ADHD, but someone close to me does. I want to scream at people who insist that ADHD (or any other number of issues) isn’t real!
This person I care about can function when medicated. Without medication this person would fail at life!
It’s not a choice! Or about trying harder or more exercise or a better diet or maturity or whatever else people like to claim.
Sometimes medication is the ONLY answer and there should be no shame in that. I’m thrilled to hear about your new living situation and improved “life” situation, my friend!