I did a lot of therapy coming off of my marriage ten years ago. I'm not perfect and I'll always have some deep insecurities, but it's definitely possible to heal.

My therapist has told me 2 things: (1) she's never met anyone with worse luck than me and (2) my dating struggles aren't my fault but a sign of the times. (Trust me. We've had MANY conversations about whether I'm bringing this on myself. She's been very reassuring.) I'll continue to be self-reflective and put myself out there. Otherwise, there's only so much I can do!

There are definitely great, quality men out there! You have to be able to sift through all the other guys, but be assured there are good men, too! Best wishes to you as you heal!