I dated a guy once who ordered me to never use Tinder. It was sort of sweet, actually. We had just met, but I was upfront about my experiences and what I was looking for. He then looked at me and pointedly said: “You are never to get on Tinder. Ever.”
After a great second date, some compliments on my kissing, and the admission that he was looking for someone who was emotionally available, I never heard from him again.
Guess I wasn’t such a great kisser after all. (I just shrugged my shoulders. Fortunately, my feedback from other sources has been very good so my ego is in tact.)
Anyway, good luck, Jonathan!