I can assure you that you are mistaken about a woman not being into a guy if she doesn’t sleep with him by the third date.

In my case, I have been VERY into guys but my moral code simply doesn’t work that way.

For me: You don’t get the third date if I’m not into you. (Heck, I don’t go out on a lot of first dates.)

I’m sort of the female polar opposite of you: If I’m intimate with a guy, he knows that I am highly selective and I chose him.

In any case, I appreciate that you are upfront about those issues. I am as well. And I’m very aware that in today’s dating world I am the anomaly, the throw-back, the antiquated.

But I also know I’m not the only woman (or man, for that matter) that feels this way.

Thanks again for the response!

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