Honestly, I really don’t discuss my sex life in detail in this forum. The fact remains that this is public and I’m not writing anonymously. This is one of the lines I have drawn regarding my writing. I have a child and other people who could find my writing. Not every aspect of my life is fair game for Medium!
I will share that: it would be impossible for me to just stumble into some sort of sexual relationship. There is zero percent chance I’m not talking about sex first. I also make it clear that I’m never going to be a casual sex gal.
Most guys will ditch me because of that. Those that aren’t scared off by that fact have tended to find other reasons to bail: life crises, my car is too nice (seriously), they are very busy (which I think translates into they aren’t that into me anyway or they don’t want any sort of relationship), or any number of other reasons.
For purely sex matters, you might dig deeper into the PS I Love You vaults (or just check out the tag “sex”) for better insight.
Thanks as always for reading, Dawn! I’m sorry that I couldn’t be more helpful, but hope that I have provided some good recommendations.