Fantastic as always, Shani! I have so many thoughts that I need still need more time to digest this.

I did write a story yesterday with you in mind (and tagged your own story).

You have personally inspired me to be more forthright when guys do something that makes me uncomfortable. I’m not sure that it will make any difference. But I’m also not sure that guys always understand the impact of their language/actions. So my hope is that I can clear some of that up.

If nothing else, it feels good to stand up for myself. And I wanted to know that you have had a small role in that. Thank you!

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