Excellent point! Yes, “curvy” has been hijacked by too many women who are overweight. Guys aren’t going to trust that terminology until they meet a woman in person.
Congratulations on your marriage — how lovely to have met your special someone AND not have to deal with this ridiculousness anymore!
Oh, I definitely have stories about some of my dating foibles with divorced guys. Some of these are more serious/reflective and others are a bit sillier.
Thank you for reading and responding!