Absolutely, Tony Bowman! It may sound implausible, but until I sent those messages and received the “maybe,” it had never occurred to me that he would then choose to ignore me. By choosing “maybe,” I had assumed he would contact me in some way that he had changed his mind to “yes” or “no.” But when he reverted to silence, I realized that there was nowhere to go but “no.”

Anyhoo, yes, an indecisive dude would drive me batty. So I’m trying to latch onto that aspect of this, too!

Thank you for the astute observation and for reading today!

By the way, j’adore your punk/new wave tagline!

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