And I try not to respond too often to the guys who leave messages that are inappropriate. I know I’m not supposed to “engage” them. Most of the time I can leave the things they say alone, but sometimes I REALLY want to call them out.

Again, the guys who are clear in their profiles about their sexual desires don’t bother me very much since they are upfront.

It’s the other guys!

I realize my response was passive-aggressive, but I was straddling a line: it was hard for me to be totally silent but I did not want a full-on attack either.

I suppose I lose either way. Stay silent and he gets “away” with being inappropriate once again. Attempt to call him out and he takes a swipe at me.

Some part of me is glad that I at least attempted to call him out.

Thanks for reading and being one of the good ones, Jeff!

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